Wednesday 7-27-2011

Don't let fear stop you......

Tuesday 7-26-2011

Happy Tuesday all! Never be intimidated by or envious of what someone else has. Some people like to talk about what they have done in life, only to make you feel less than them.  Some people like to talk about what they have acquired in their travels.  Some people like to explain why the things they have, are better than the things you have.  Whenever I’m engaged in a conversation with one of these people and they start saying; "I have this and I have that, I did this and I did that", all I hear them saying is, "I HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM".  I use the example of the people who say they work hard and the people who actually do work hard.  People who work hard never talk about what they do, they just do it.  The people who shout how hard they work, rarely work hard.  The moral of the story is; be about it, don't speak about it.  When you do speak about it, make sure it's informational.  It is a fact we live in a 'class' society, but that doesn't mean we have to embrace it.  Break the cycle; support more and judge less.  The great Marketing Machine would love for us to stay the way we are.  The underlying issue here is self-esteem.  Some people use your low self-esteem against you (marketing, people who want to seem better than you).  Never feel less than anyone else and remember; what they eat don't make you $h1t.....

Thursday 7-21-2011

Life is a lot like driving on the highway. If you drive too fast some people don't like it, they think you are driving too fast...if you drive the speed limit some people don't like it, they think you are driving to slow...if you drive below the speed limit some people don't like it, they think you are going to slow.  The moral of the story is, there's always someone who wont like what you are doing with, "YOUR" life.  As with your car, you are responsible and accountable for your life...live (drive) it your way! Happy Thursday peeps!

Wednesday 7-20-2011

The word of the day is: UNHAPPY... Don't waste time being in or doing something that doesn't make you happy.  If you stay in these situations, you need to blame yourself.  Once you get to the level of 'sustained' unhappiness in a situation, it's up to you to change the situation.  Waiting for the situation to change on its own is a wasted gesture.  I have never heard from or heard of a person that regrets getting themselves out of an unhappy situation.  What I have heard is, "I wish I did it sooner!".  Don't waste your life being unhappy.  The fear people have of the unknown, is very powerful.  Don't let this fear steal precious time from you.  Take control of your existence, before it is to late!  It will be tough, however, you will be better for it.  When you are asked: "Why don't you change this situation?" and your response is "What about this, what about that, it's because of this, it's because of that...etc...", these are all deflections and cop-outs.  What you should really be saying is, "Here's my plan...". Sustained success has a plan.  Sustained failure results from lack of planning.  Happy Wednesday all....

Tuesday 7-19-2011

Happy Tuesday peeps! We all know exactly what we need to do @ all times...the confusion sets in when we try & weigh what we know, with what people tell us to do or want us to do.... stop worrying about how people view u...only u, need to approve ur thoughts and actions. Make sure any advice u r getting is objective & not a projection of the ideals of the person advising u....

Wednesday 7-13-2011

Today should be the most important day of your life.  Each moment you are alive is all that you have. Don't take one moment for granted, as you travel through life.  You never know when it will be your last moment.  People often ask me how I stay so even tempered.  The answer is quite simple; I never allow any moment to be more important than the current moment of time.  People tend to dwell on the past or be obsessed with the future.  These missteps cause the present to be overlooked and add stress to the equation.  Stress is best described as focusing on something you can't control.  You can't control your past or future, you can control your present.  A wise person; learns from their past, plans their future, and use both to shape their present.  Happy Wednesday everyone!

Tuesday 7-12-2011

In life, every 1 of us is dealing with different kinds of problems. Life is about solving your own problems; not about blaming other people for them or comparing your struggles to those of people you may know... also, don't waste energy worrying about what people think about the issues you have. Worrying about how people view you, clouds your judgment....Happy Tuesday :)