Wednesday 7-20-2011

The word of the day is: UNHAPPY... Don't waste time being in or doing something that doesn't make you happy.  If you stay in these situations, you need to blame yourself.  Once you get to the level of 'sustained' unhappiness in a situation, it's up to you to change the situation.  Waiting for the situation to change on its own is a wasted gesture.  I have never heard from or heard of a person that regrets getting themselves out of an unhappy situation.  What I have heard is, "I wish I did it sooner!".  Don't waste your life being unhappy.  The fear people have of the unknown, is very powerful.  Don't let this fear steal precious time from you.  Take control of your existence, before it is to late!  It will be tough, however, you will be better for it.  When you are asked: "Why don't you change this situation?" and your response is "What about this, what about that, it's because of this, it's because of that...etc...", these are all deflections and cop-outs.  What you should really be saying is, "Here's my plan...". Sustained success has a plan.  Sustained failure results from lack of planning.  Happy Wednesday all....