Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Tuesday 10-9-2012

Relationships...

There are many reasons why relationships don't work.  A surefire way to spot an incompatible union is: Do you support your partner when they are down? Are you jealous of their shine/success? When I ask these questions it's not about what you show on the outside, but, what you feel on the inside.  Plenty of people will say they support their mate, but, they are only putting on a show.  If you feel some sort of way when your mate is getting a lot of attention for who they are or when they are down and out because of a setback of different sorts; you're just not the right person for them.

This doesn't mean you need to always agree with this person.  It simply means, when you're mate is happy being them or sad, dealing with adversity - YOU are always there, because, YOU want to be.  NOT because you think you HAVE to be.  If you're elated by your partners success and sad by their obstacles, you just might be on to something....


Be a better partner because you want to be...otherwise you are wasting everyone's time...



Mrp36


Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Wednesday 2-1-2012

Everyone has the right to their opinion. They have the right to say how they feel. Everyone else, has the right to do the same about said opinion. Here goes ...(^_-)... When you complain about 'change', what you are really saying is; you lack the ability to adapt. When you lack the ability to adapt, you fall prey to stagnation. Stagnation is a silent killer of self-improvement. Rest assured, your life's adversaries are always adapting to win against you. Keep in mind, without change there would be no Facebook, cell phones, child labor laws, or 50 United States to name a few things. Without change we would still have the Roman Empire, one large Continent, and prohibition to name a few things. Life is 100% change. Spend more time figuring out how to make 'change' work for you and less time complaining about it. Don't give up before you start....